Trash or Treasure? Downsizing a Lifetime of Stuff

Karen Caccavodecluttering, Memorabilia

My parents moved across the country several times over the years, with second homes along the way.  Each time they moved, they hauled not only the necessities, but also lots of “stuff,” which was … trash or treasure? One item left to us was a rusty and broken child’s bank in the shape of a bank building (see photo of …

Family Treasures — or Just Trash?

Karen Caccavodecluttering, Preserving Memories

What to do with All That “Stuff” In my last blog, “Trash or Treasure?”, I told the story of a coin bank we found in my parents’ storage unit.  Its true identity remains frustratingly elusive. But it didn’t have to be that way — if we had only known it had existed and had asked my dad about it before …

"Moose" refers to Robert Bly's description of himself

Our Memories are Not in Our Things — They are Inside of Us

Karen Caccavodecluttering, Financial Organizing, Life Lessons, Memorabilia, Possessions, Preserving Memories, Working with Seniors

It’s not an easy lesson. And I learned it the hard way…. One spring evening in London, I went to hear Robert Bly recite his poetry.  He had won the National Book Award for Poetry in the US a few years earlier in 1967, yet the audience was small.  Afterwards, we all went to the local pub for a pint. …

Illustrates Dad's Clutter Game

Dad’s Clutter Game: How to Get Rid of Stuff

Karen Caccavodecluttering, Life Lessons, Possessions

I remember Dad’s Clutter Game that he invented for my siblings and me when we were young.  It was a good rainy-day activity that kept us busy and out of each other’s hair.  And it seemed to satisfy his life-long crusade against clutter. How would we get rid of stuff? Dad would set each of us up with paper grocery …

What worries keep seniors up at night? What "elephants in the room" remain unacknowledged?

Facing the Elephants in the Room

Karen CaccavoLiving Independently, Working with Seniors

What worries keep seniors up at night?  What “elephants in the room” remain unacknowledged? Many of these “elephants” exist for clients and their families.  Here are some of the concerns my senior clients have shared with me.  They may sound familiar: “I will start to slip and important things will fall through the cracks.” “l’ll be a burden on my …